I feel tired when I’m with you. It’s good for both of us to be apart.
I believe that in the experience of several failed love partners, this sentence must not feel strange.
These three words are often used as a reason to break up, feel tired when together, what is the specific concept of this tired and why this tired will make people want to give up a day and night accompany or have a heart to love people. When we meet the person we like and fall in love with each other, it may be a moment, or a few days and months, but when two people establish a close relationship, we have to think about how to maintain the love. Getting along is a process of two people getting to know, grinding in and gradually accepting each other, and perhaps also a process of gradually separating.
Intimate relationship is a branch of psychology that refers to a harmonious relationship between two people of all ages, regardless of gender. Today it mostly refers to a relationship formed between partners. A close relationship can also refer to a special friend, someone who trusts the other person enough to speak from the heart.
How to build an intimate relationship should be considered from the perspective of both parties, which may be the topic of our lifetime; The premise of a healthy, healthy relationship is that we are healthy people, physically and mentally.
The word “identification” in modern psychology, first proposed by Freud, refers to the process of emotional and psychological convergence between individuals and others, groups or imitation figures, and is the initial form of expression of emotional connection between individuals and individuals. Self-identity, in short, is to be able to view oneself and the outside world rationally, and to gradually feel self-worth and social recognition and affirmation in life experience. In my own sense of identity, I will constantly consolidate my self-esteem and confidence through practice. I will not blindly pander to or submit to others. I will have a sense of identity with myself and what I have done.
To build a healthy and stable relationship, your healthy self comes first. k has a very good friend who is excellent and has a very outstanding appearance. However, the person she finds is not as good as her own in both subjective and objective conditions. However, k’s friend still occasionally feels inferior and unworthy of her. That’s a sign of poor self-identity, not having a good self-identity. In an intimate relationship, the first step is to recognize your right and worth to be loved, to accept yourself and forgive yourself. Each of us is born and raised, regardless of whether we are good or beautiful by social standards, without affecting our right to be loved and to believe that we are worthy of love.
“Love yourself, then love your neighbor.” We often say that this is based on self-identity, in the process of dealing with self-identity is also to build a foundation for getting along with others, first learn to love yourself, to love others better.